The 'ONE'

Is there actually such a thing? Like people spend their lives looking for the 'one' and only person who will make them happy. Men and Women alike. but then everything gets so misconstrued. people start to think the 'ONE' is a tall dark and handsome man, with millions, great hair, and a body to match. but then when we think like this the people who actually exist in the world get looked over and ignored. yes there are the few people who actually are tall dark and handsome, with a great body with millions, but my theory is that they found the hot girls and are married to them now and live on their private islands.

I use to be a hopeless romantic, I'd sit down with my diary for days writing how my husband would be the best guy, how he would do these sweet things, and how we could never be separated. But then after those childish years left me and I began to see reality, I realized that that might just never happen. There are those people that settle, or make mistakes and marry the wrong person. That reminds me of that movie again 'he's just not that into you' (yea i think it's stuck in my head). During one scene these two girls are talking about how one of them met this married man and that he's the perfect guy for her. and her friend decides to offer her a few 'words of wisdom' she says to her friend who she turns into a home wrecker that 'what if you get married and then you find your soul mate later?'

and that made me think. the amount of people that cheat in America did they just find their soul mate? haha no that's giving them to much credit. some do it just for the jollys.

but really what if you settle or make a mistake and then the 'ONE' pops out of thin air and swoops you off your feet??

but any ways back to reality, i beleive the 'one' does not exist, or is that me just being a pessimist/realist (which I very much am). but come on, who can believe that there is a certain person out there, just ONE person God has created just for you? if i have one he has obviously lost his way and is not asking for directions. so for now i'll be the one doing the leg work and people watching looking for a guy that resembles the one until he finds his way to me (if he exists).